Wow.
seriously.
i believe people when they tell me something.
i mean, Yah, i have my moments, many moments of unstrust. but for the most part I believe. I love to believe in the best of human nature. I take people for their word. I also realize that is a fault i have and it hurts me.
but does it hurt me cause I let it?
Or does it hurt me cause it can?
Is that the same thing?
Do I make up the rest?
or is it really happening?
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Not a fault.
You just give people the benefit of the doubt!
Kind of like innocent untill proven otherwise.
I am gullable untill some one crosses me..then I am not very forgiving.
You are like my mom as a scorpio..
my husband as a scorpio..bugger him..can always predict and see right through...yup bubble burster.
I think we as women prefer to sek the good in someone..because we all have bad..naughty girls!!!(and boys)
Yes it's really happening..and I think it hurts because IT CAN! We don't chose that..well some people do...but not you girlfriend..
Don't you usaually tell it to FUCK OFF???? LOL
I trust people wayyyyy too easily....or, well, I used to. I mean I still do...its my nature, and I, too, tend to believe people when they tell me something...or take to heart what people say....but I am also, somewhat a skeptic (I think you know this about me..lol) I have been screwed and hurt too many times to count...online AND especially in my real life. It sucks.
I think I've developed a bit of a harder outer shell, and I can thank blogland for that. Not sure if that is good or bad. My first instinct is to just take everyone at their word....but then I stop...think and shake my head. Nuh uh Chelle....don't be stupid!
Live and learn they say. HA! Fuckers! :)
Good Lord..did THAT make ANY sense?? LOL
Hey, I'm still here! I see you've been ok. I'm writing at my blog again, talk to you soon.
who hurt you baby? I'll punch 'im in the face until they're dead!!!
lol @ Steph ... way to go. Yes, I've had a few eye openers with blog peeps of late as well. Funny how people are never quite what they seem. But it's all part of what makes a different I guess, so I'm learning to roll with the punches. It's wise not too take it all too seriously I think.
your comment aggie opened my eyes...snooping but no commenting on my blog..the verbal gossip back to me hurts though...and like KM..i take it to heart ...cause we have one!
Taking someone at their word is not a fault. The fault lies with them not being able to be honest. We have to keep believing in the best of people, or else what are we left with?
So who was the idiot that disapointed you?
i am just confused right now between reality and........
unsure and scared about my relationship. Cold feet. Asking myself if i am pushing down the right road. Looking to the right future. Scard of ending up like others before me that are separating.
Then in the end I wonder if I even need to worry, cause he'll leave me anyhow jsut like the rest.
Friggin Pinks! can't wait tillI;'m off.
I don't think your head was more clear before the pinks! :)
Scared of others who are sperating??? Here is someone who wrote it perfectly...... http://runningwildly.blogspot.com/
her post "My choice"
Hugs to you!! Trust yourself!
Well a good chunk of the reason that Dave and I had "the break" was cause I just figured he would leave me eventually - so why not just beat him to the punch right? Everyone else left, he'll do it soon enough.
When all you have seen is divorce, heartache and bitterness, sometimes its hard to trust in a relationship. Eventually I had to decide what was worse - the heartache that MIGHT happen, or never having that commitment to a man that you love completely. Now my relationship is far from perfect - but look what I would have missed out on if I had stayed in my lil protective shell.
I guess what I am saying is that if you feel like you have found a person that is right for you then don't let the past or the seperations figure in.
Think about how many times we fall before we master walking? Have to just let go and try.
i guess i am just questioning everything right now.
have i found the one.......
I just don't know.
the pinks make it hard to think clear these days.
its time to adjust again.......
I hate always being fuzzy
Thank you for your candid and heartfelt comment on my blog. It truly touched me that you were moved by my words, and the truth of your personal struggle. I wish I had the perfect thing to say to you. I wish I could tell you that happily ever after is a given. But it's not. And I truly believe with guidance and a genuine heart any person can make a choice during hardships......especially during hardships. I pray you will discover the answer you are searching for. Thank you again for your thought-provoking comment.
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