So I figure that since one of my issues is the relationship Mountain has with The Cow as one of my problems..........I am going to face it head on!
I've invited her and her daughter for dinner SAturday
than I will tackle my other issues ........ but first things first.
yes it is possible I have CoMPlETLy lost my MinD!!!
I think I'll cook a roast. That'll be nice.
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whoa! awkward! what are your goals for this meeting? this could go both ways you know. either way, good luck my ballsy friend. ;)
I hope you know what you are doing my friend.
My wisdom (such as it is from afar) tells me that you should resolve the issue with Mountain FIRST (even if that takes a wee while) and stay well away from this poisonous lady.
hmmm... Not sure what my opinion is. What are you going to do ask her outright if she wants him back? Ask her what her motivation is? Can I come and watch?
oh jeepers!
no I'm not going to ask her that! I already know the answer. That is not my issue.
My issue is ... that she and people affiliated with her (Kori) make choices that affect me, thru Lyle, based on the fact that they don't respect my relationship or my position in Lyle's life.
After I deal with the source i hope that it will be easier to deal with Lyle. As he is the one in the middle and just doens't seem to "know" how to deal with being torn in two.
So i will make nice for an evening.
Hopefully I can see Leah the way Lyle see's her and possibly gain some respect for her too.
Besides, Lyle believes Tea to be his daughter. Therefore, this woman is going to be in our lives forever. WhiteTrash and all. so WE better figure out how to get along!!
I think she'll back out.
she gave herself an out.
"if nothing comes up" what is going to come up? You've made a plan for dinner for the eveing? What the Hell? But whatever. these are wierd people. And they do things in a wierd way. So i will just go with it.
Of course steph....if your van just happens to show up, unannounced, that evening. Imagine my surprise that you just happen to be shopping at Superstore and thought you might drop in cause you know I've been depressed lately. Just a good friend checking in.
i think you should hide a video camera and then post it on youtube!!
you are braver than i am -
cook something that when she throws it, it wont be a total mess!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
i plan on being a wonderful hostess. it is not my intention to start or finish anytning. Just gain knowledge
Lyle figures she's gonna back out too.
Doing this has already opened up this huge door of conversation for us. It was really great tonight! Being able to talk and he was listening and having a nice real conversation with me about it. We were agreeing about things too!
I see this as being a positive step for all of us
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