I need some space from Mountain right now to figure out what is going on.
eventhough he says he is not going anywhere anytime soon......
some good points were raised over the last day that I need to think and re-think about.
Things are not postive enough for me.
and they really have to be for Charlotte
I've never been good at relationships.
I'm backing off
That makes me sad
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Awwwwww sweetie. I am sorry to hear that. {hug} ... think it trough carefully. I’m here if you have any guy questions.
You have ato do what feels right for you and for Charlotte. Don't do something just because others said it might be the right thing to do. It sounds to me like you 2 had a pertty good relationship. You sure you wanna completely back off?? Maybe just slow it down? Maybe you are just scared. And that's ok.....but shar that with him.....at least make sure he knows why you are backing off.
Hang in there :) I'm here if ya ever need to talk.
I heard nothing but positive things about you and Mountain... from you and from your friends who have seen you together. Sure you're not just getting cold feet?? All the things you described feeling are the very same things I felt with my hubby.... it just felt right, my guard was down... you need to let others in even though you fear getting hurt!!!
this is the most normal relationship you have ever had. Sweetie... this is what is supposed to be like. All those feelings, the fears, the concerns... all normal.
Talk things through with him too. Don't make this decision without him. And be really careful not to over think things. ((who you???? nooooo...)) Sometimes logic and matters of the heart don't work well together.
I'm sorry you are sad. I hope things can turn into a positive for all involved from you going through this thought process. love ya girlie!!!
Listen to fruitloop girl!!! Talk to him about your concerns & your fears!!
I never said I was scared.
take from someone who knows - you are thinking too much - just let things happen -
and yes - INCLUDE HIM IN THIS! After all - this does involve him
I think you are doing ok. No need to rush things. If it is right it will be there for you in the future, too. If it is not there for you in the future, it is not right for you now.
There has been talk
thats what brought this on
I have stuff to think about.
I am not scared. Gaurd is down. Wasn't thinking till now. Didn't have any concerns either.
Just gotta think now and so does he
It's OK to take time out and think ... if it's meant to be, you'll both come back to it with the same conclusion and feel right about it. Good luck chick.
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